Own Your Behaviours, Master Your Communication, Determine Your Success | Louise Evans | TEDxGenova

This speech is a call to action. We spend about eighty percent of our day at work, the rest is at home. If we have a bad day at work we are likely to take that negativity home with us and vice versa. It is of paramount importance that we create healthy environments in the spaces that most affect our lives by giving of our best and receiving the like in return. The 5 Chairs is a powerful and systematic method which helps us master our own behaviours and manage the behaviours of others. To be a good leader is to contribute to the success and happiness of everyone, at work and at home, on a conscious level. The 5 Chairs offer 5 Choices. Which will you choose?
Behavioral Coach, Corporate Trainer, Author of ‘5 Chairs 5 Choices’. Louise Evans heads up her own organization in Florence, Italy from which she offers international leadership development, cross-cultural transitional coaching and personal development programmes for individuals and teams working in international contexts. She is English but has lived and worked in Germany, France and for the last 30 years in Italy.
Three things have always been important in her life - people, travel and the performing arts - all three of which she combines in her daily work. Having travelled to seven-five countries and experienced culture shock three times, Louise brings multiple perspectives to the present moment to help people connect across their differences. Louise believes deeply in people’s ability to grow and transform. What she values most is helping people strengthen their self-awareness and their understanding of others so that they bring their best selves into the world in every situation.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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  • Sow AG
    Sow AG12 jam yang lalu

    I've come into undeserved luck. i want to share it.

  • Sow AG
    Sow AG12 jam yang lalu

    would love to have listened to this lady so long ago, and may even understood how to operate a little better

  • Cinqu Warren
    Cinqu WarrenHari Yang lalu

    I wish I was ready for this info 4 years ago. But, "All things in it's time."

  • gamer chanel
    gamer chanelHari Yang lalu

    Really awsome thanks for that great speech

  • Mel S.
    Mel S.Hari Yang lalu

    Awesome and very helpful

  • Coach DLWASSON
    Coach DLWASSONHari Yang lalu

    a very powerful talk that came to me today at a perfect time! Thank you SO much for this!

  • üç 3
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    Could anyone tell me which one is true?

  • parmar priyank
    parmar priyankHari Yang lalu

    Awesome Thank you 🙏🏼

  • RIGHTyouARE
    RIGHTyouAREHari Yang lalu

    Hugely insightful and comprehensible. The delivery makes it easy for anyone to follow and resonate with! Amazing talk ❤

  • Dolly 666
    Dolly 666Hari Yang lalu

    Some people are sitting on two seats Even if they are further apart.

  • Bruna Ottoni
    Bruna Ottoni2 hari yang lalu

    Very nice to watching Loiuse in TED. I remind her voice from sitcom "That's life" her accent is great. Amazing teacher. Thank you.

  • Susanne Müller-Wessling
    Susanne Müller-Wessling3 hari yang lalu

    I have repeatedly listened to this Ted talk over the years - if I had to pick just one Ted talk to keep, it would be this one. It always touches my soul deeply and the 5 chairs are such a valuable tool for me - especially in these trying times. With deep gratitude to you, Louise. Susanne

  • L D
    L D3 hari yang lalu

    Louise , she is right you are the best!

  • bluestrife28
    bluestrife283 hari yang lalu

    There’s just something so much more attention-keeping about a classy British lady giving a Talk. Like it is one’s Mom or a Teacher. This was awesome. I need more of this because I’ve spent too long in the red chair.

  • Mina Semyon
    Mina Semyon4 hari yang lalu

    Thank you!!! Life transforming!!!

  • Bradley Adams
    Bradley Adams5 hari yang lalu

    Brilliant!!

  • vaibhav dhavale
    vaibhav dhavale5 hari yang lalu

    One of the best motivation video I have heard

  • tara setlur
    tara setlur5 hari yang lalu

    What an inspiring marvellous talk.!! I m 34 & I feel like a child knowing things to myself & about others. I would like to take your opinion. I have made a blunder reacting (sitting on the red chair) & the damage is almost being done. I hv tried a few times to put an effort to rectify that. But seems it isn’t working & I want it to work as it’s important to me. What is it that I can do to make it work before I lose the whole grip of the person ? Thanks Tara

  • Update today live by shripaul
    Update today live by shripaul5 hari yang lalu

    excellent

  • helen villanueva
    helen villanueva5 hari yang lalu

    I clapped so hard after watching this....it woke my mom up...love it...

  • Yashwanth
    Yashwanth5 hari yang lalu

    The best talk, ever

  • Hugh Moore
    Hugh Moore5 hari yang lalu

    This is the first time I have ever watched an entire TED Talk . . . Did anyone notice she used the word WE in almost all her references to human behavior . . . ? ? ? A very important quality of speech that we should all try to master ! ! !

  • saikumar kurapati
    saikumar kurapati6 hari yang lalu

    Great message

  • Nabeela Aslam
    Nabeela Aslam7 hari yang lalu

    This talk is indeed great inspiration. Is it possible for you to tell that when a person too empathetic, what would happen to her/him?

  • Nabeela Aslam
    Nabeela Aslam7 hari yang lalu

    How we can avoid stereotyping of the colours used in the talk? Why red is associated with attack?

  • Ezemet İsmayilov
    Ezemet İsmayilov7 hari yang lalu

    İ love this women , she is best

  • ichi
    ichi7 hari yang lalu

    lol the intro

  • TRH- Nutriscope
    TRH- Nutriscope8 hari yang lalu

    Oh it was great I enjoyed

  • Tamanna Sharma
    Tamanna Sharma8 hari yang lalu

    Thums up for choice number 3...HAVE ANOTHER DRINK 🍷

  • B. Kodzo Ofori
    B. Kodzo Ofori9 hari yang lalu

    Just beautiful !My very first time and very impressed!

  • adrianahoney2003ga
    adrianahoney2003ga9 hari yang lalu

    Best presentation that covers all!!☀️🙏🏻thank you for sharing👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😻

  • Laval Simpson
    Laval Simpson9 hari yang lalu

    Wonderful

  • Enoch king
    Enoch king9 hari yang lalu

    We need more of this. Thanks

  • CounterMeds
    CounterMeds9 hari yang lalu

    Great Job Louise Please listen to my Audiobook Audiobook "Principles of Women in Leadership and their Rise as Business Leaders" by Asma Baig - ID-get

  • Lkhamaa Pionyer
    Lkhamaa Pionyer9 hari yang lalu

    One of the best videos I have seen on TED stage. Wonderful. Always remember about 5 chairs. You were amazing when expressing the idea Louise

  • Yayang Tapir
    Yayang Tapir9 hari yang lalu

    Absolutely awesome!

  • Refilwe Zwane
    Refilwe Zwane9 hari yang lalu

    Wow. Extremely enlightening. Love it.

  • Pari Namazie
    Pari Namazie9 hari yang lalu

    Love this Louise! So good to see this as a TED Talk. I first heard this at one of our SIETAR events. Well done!

  • Madhhvi RAJ
    Madhhvi RAJ9 hari yang lalu

    You changed me 💕

  • Rizajen Gomez Channel
    Rizajen Gomez Channel9 hari yang lalu

    This video really helps me a lot how to be a better person. Thank you so much Madam Louise for sharing your knowledge and Great experiences

  • raya datta
    raya datta10 hari yang lalu

    This is one of the best👍

  • khanyi thonjeni
    khanyi thonjeni10 hari yang lalu

    This is so strong

  • Yves Saint Yvette
    Yves Saint Yvette10 hari yang lalu

    She is magnificent

  • frengki widjaja
    frengki widjaja10 hari yang lalu

    Thank you. 🙏

  • Konstantina Efstathiou
    Konstantina Efstathiou10 hari yang lalu

    I had an anxiety attack not long ago this really helped :))

  • MsBizzyGurl
    MsBizzyGurl10 hari yang lalu

    Or, just be kind and neutrally emotional. Read the room. Be mindful of what energy you contribute and direct intention to the desired outcome.

  • Filio Armeni
    Filio Armeni10 hari yang lalu

    Very good thank you❤️👍🇬🇷

  • PeacePlease!
    PeacePlease!10 hari yang lalu

    Well Done Louise! Your entire presentation: (attitude, posture, relatability, accent, connection with the audience), was Wonderful. Made sense, and a good reminder to not only put things in perspective, but also to invite compassion & respect. A Great Lesson in Purposeful Peace! Ushta-te!!

  • Donna Snyder
    Donna Snyder10 hari yang lalu

    Thank you so much.

  • Akos
    Akos11 hari yang lalu

    Very intelligent woman. I always judged before even listening. Thanks for the talk.

  • PaGus Music
    PaGus Music11 hari yang lalu

    Good one, reminds me of the book ‘surrounded by idiots’! I’d like to learn how to be a ‘giraffe’ more!

  • Akash
    Akash11 hari yang lalu

    ❤️

  • Maria Paulツ
    Maria Paulツ12 hari yang lalu

    This is one of the best ted talks.

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    Pranav Dixit vlogs12 hari yang lalu

    ek no boli 👌

  • Miranda Rogers
    Miranda Rogers12 hari yang lalu

    1 Corinthians 15:1-4 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • Daniel Vekua
    Daniel Vekua13 hari yang lalu

    Amazing

  • hana neumanova
    hana neumanova13 hari yang lalu

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  • The channel of everything
    The channel of everything13 hari yang lalu

    Beautifully done.

  • The channel of everything
    The channel of everything13 hari yang lalu

  • lida650
    lida65014 hari yang lalu

    Amazing amazing . Thanks 🙏

  • Star Laughter
    Star Laughter14 hari yang lalu

    I like the chair concept, and feel it relates to my most recent attempts to imagine the different 'voices' as personalities similar to someone with that multiple personality disorder. Trying to recognise between which voice has 'the light' most often, and the importance of trying to invite the more positive voices more often. Thanks for sharing!

  • aka aly houston
    aka aly houston15 hari yang lalu

    I've been realizing this lately: Not to let my negative thoughts ruin moments and ultimately life for myself

  • Ritu Sodhi
    Ritu Sodhi15 hari yang lalu

    Wonderful way of expression

  • James Thebond
    James Thebond15 hari yang lalu

    Brilient😁

  • BUILD YOURSELF
    BUILD YOURSELF16 hari yang lalu

    👌🏻🤓

  • Jainy Wilson
    Jainy Wilson16 hari yang lalu

    good

  • Ricka Milla Suatin
    Ricka Milla Suatin16 hari yang lalu

    This talk has a high value. I like this talk. thank you so much for sharing this!

  • Esoteric Investigations
    Esoteric Investigations17 hari yang lalu

    Best Ted Talk I've ever heard! I'm going to share it on facebook and then try to find her book!

  • Tommy Ruppert
    Tommy Ruppert18 hari yang lalu

    Lol I guess it really was every video on ID-get with Invincible as the intro song

  • Ronit Wallis
    Ronit Wallis18 hari yang lalu

    Thank you so much for an excellent talk! Do you have any more lectures that i can hear , You are so assuring, convincing and precise, sometimes the shortest talk can give the biggest lesson!

  • Stroke of Harmony
    Stroke of Harmony18 hari yang lalu

    Thanks for your meaningful life lessons.

  • Akmal Patras OMI
    Akmal Patras OMI18 hari yang lalu

    Thank you Dear Louise Evans for such a powerful and meaningful speech.

  • neha kakkar
    neha kakkar18 hari yang lalu

    lovely

  • Wendy Stanford
    Wendy Stanford19 hari yang lalu

    Can you do more please?

  • Hiền Nguyễn Thị Duy
    Hiền Nguyễn Thị Duy19 hari yang lalu

    A wonderful speech

  • Sandeep Tatraju
    Sandeep Tatraju19 hari yang lalu

    Excellent

  • Bunleang Kong
    Bunleang Kong19 hari yang lalu

    Great tips for having a better life. I know lots of people are facing with finding appropriate behavior for a particular situation.

  • Varadarajan R
    Varadarajan R19 hari yang lalu

    Wonderful and eye-opening talk. Thanks for the same. As we get older, it is a necessity to look at life and people in proper way and tune ourselves. Otherwise, we only ruin our peace. Thanks once again.

  • Ap Thra
    Ap Thra19 hari yang lalu

    Control them

  • Engineer Agini
    Engineer Agini20 hari yang lalu

    Amazing. Learnt so much from this talk. Definitely checking out more stuff from Louise Evans

  • Sabira Prashad
    Sabira Prashad20 hari yang lalu

    Ted talks....n you dear Louise ....are amazing as a trend setter to enlightenment, understanding n response... Loved the idea of the chairs... This will now be my early morning routine... To begin my day with "Ted Talks..."

  • Alex Rodriguez
    Alex Rodriguez21 hari yang lalu

    This was an amazing talk. If everyone heeded the amazing wisdom Louise shared this world would be a better place. May God's love and peace surround you and bring you to a better place! Thank you so much for sharing Louise.

  • Sow AG

    Sow AG

    12 jam yang lalu

    I wish I'd had a lot of time with such a person so long ago

  • Musoki Emily
    Musoki Emily22 hari yang lalu

    This was like calcium to my soul

  • Bianca Dela rosa

    Bianca Dela rosa

    21 hari yang lalu

    @Musoki Emily Text him on WhatsApp

  • Musoki Emily

    Musoki Emily

    22 hari yang lalu

    What does he do?

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    Bianca Dela rosa

    22 hari yang lalu

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    Bianca Dela rosa

    22 hari yang lalu

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  • Bianca Dela rosa

    Bianca Dela rosa

    22 hari yang lalu

    Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

  • Shae C
    Shae C23 hari yang lalu

    I feel this talk in my soul.

  • Rajdeep Kaur
    Rajdeep Kaur23 hari yang lalu

    Very nice man

  • Jill Wagner
    Jill Wagner23 hari yang lalu

    Excellent speech and demonstration. Communication choices explained so brilliantly by Ms.Evans. Great visual methods to get the points across. Love the content! Thank you!!

  • NIDHI VADIWALA
    NIDHI VADIWALA23 hari yang lalu

    Wonderfully said ☺️ you grabbed my all attention. Not a single thought to change the video. Your voice is calm. You’re very composed. Loved your performance ❤️

  • NIDHI VADIWALA

    NIDHI VADIWALA

    22 hari yang lalu

    @Bianca Dela rosa what you’re talking about

  • Bianca Dela rosa

    Bianca Dela rosa

    22 hari yang lalu

    massage him on WhatsApp..

  • Bianca Dela rosa

    Bianca Dela rosa

    22 hari yang lalu

    Lovev's life true love Never die I know a great and powerful healer that can get back your ex or crua without delay Just forever within 48hours he helped me too immediately

  • Linda Johanna Laguado Labrador
    Linda Johanna Laguado Labrador24 hari yang lalu

    This TED talk was very important and reflexive for me, yes, we must try to make of this world a better place. THANK YOU!!

  • Abby Watson
    Abby Watson24 hari yang lalu

    Fearing God is the beginning of Wisdom not knowing your self

  • Abby Watson
    Abby Watson24 hari yang lalu

    Your own will power will not save you only the Blood of Jesus can. Get out of church and seek Jesus Christ.. ask God to reveal Him self to you through the scriptures and ask what is His heart desire! Be free from the hypocrisy of Church and be free from the world system be plugged into Jesus not anything else as Jesus is coming soon ! Your will power will Not Save you as you will always have quilt,shame and condemnation ! The Blood of Jesus can Clean all that junk !! Come to Him before it's too late.. the cronavirese is just a warning for you to get out of religion and seek Him at Home for your self !

  • Abby Watson

    Abby Watson

    24 hari yang lalu

    Guilt**

  • Minahil Kamal Soofi
    Minahil Kamal Soofi24 hari yang lalu

    One of the best talks I've heard

  • MIKYUM DOJE
    MIKYUM DOJE24 hari yang lalu

    It really Helped me alot it literally does

  • Love Yourself
    Love Yourself24 hari yang lalu

    Thank. You. Sooooo. Much. For. The. Wisdom. And. Education. Thank. You

  • Bodyblends Probiotic Skincare
    Bodyblends Probiotic Skincare25 hari yang lalu

    AN incredible woman indeed with a very analytical mind. Oh what I would give to take a look into your head

  • Mohammad Mahdavimanesh
    Mohammad Mahdavimanesh25 hari yang lalu

    that was one of the brilliant talks EVER!

  • Shirley Brewer
    Shirley Brewer26 hari yang lalu

    She is spot on. Makes you really think. Loved it.

  • Jing Magallanes
    Jing Magallanes26 hari yang lalu

    I love this ted talk. She speaks with grace and shows how intelligent and thoughtful she is.

  • Marun Franciz
    Marun Franciz26 hari yang lalu

    Excelente

  • Bethlehem Getaneh
    Bethlehem Getaneh26 hari yang lalu

    Such a beautiful and informative speech. My second time listening to it and helped a ton. The greatest intelligence in the world is a man’s ability to communicate with empathy and understanding, well said. Thank you!

  • Sachin Kapur
    Sachin Kapur26 hari yang lalu

    What a simple and yet powerful way to explain such an important lesson that each one of us needs. Staying with animals, I’d like to say that sometimes as leaders we need to make a choice. A choice that will not be popular, will make us look bad in the short run but will be an investment in the future. Moms, Dads, CEOs or for that matter every individual makes that choice some point in their lives. Where she/ he has to disregard what the world thinks or feels and say what is right or is the truth. What chair would you recommend for that.

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